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July 29-30, 2016 OUR VISION  Historically, our community thrives by learning from our peers. It is for this reason The PEERS Retreat was created. This unique and empowering retreat focuses on the i…
162 days ago
RIT INN and CONFERENCE CENTER, 5257 West Henrietta Road, Henrietta, NY 14467, United States
189 days ago
PXS is all things Power Exchange. Classes and workshops; social spaces and fun; we are creating a space that allows for people who are interested in all kinds of power exchange relationships to come a…
194 days ago
Columbus, Columbus, United States
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Once again the Biggest city in Kansas will be holding the Biggest three day Bondage, Fetish, BDSM event for the state in Wichita Ks  Join us once again for a fun filled weekend We will provide Saturda…
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Wichita , Wichita , United States
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KDM is the premier poly-pansexual BDSM community event in Cleveland, Ohio. Each year, hundreds of kinksters descend on Cleveland for a weekend full of great times including two nights of hot extreme p…
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cleveland, Cleveland, United States
237 days ago
subCON is an event organized by submissives & bottoms for those of any gender and orientation who identify as an s-type in all or part of their lives.  Tops are invited to our event, however all e…
236 days ago
The Players Theater, New York, United States
250 days ago
The M/s Gathering is an opportunity to escape the distractions and provide you with a warm and relaxing place to focus on the things that matter the most – you, your relationships, and finding your pl…
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Sheraton Wilmington South, New Castle, United States
250 days ago
It's the AIS Un-Conference. It's one of the most laid back, fun and cool kink events we have ever done... It's unlike anything else AIS does...and it's amazing! Ask everyone who went last year! It tot…
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Best Western - Columbus North, Columbus, United States
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SCONY’s Weekend in the Mountains with Ms. Margaret Davis and friends is a biannual SCONY tradition, with one taking place in the spring and one in the fall.We reserve a resort in the Pocono Mountains …
236 days ago
Pocono Mountains, New York, United States
251 days ago
This class has been developed for couples and singles who are trying to find basic structure in an D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) environment.During this class we will be discussing p…
239 days ago
S.F. Armory, San Francisco, United States
251 days ago
Bullwhips by the Bay is the San Francisco Bay Area's longest continually-running whips workshop, since 1997.  It is a peer workshop for those enthusiastic about whips and whip throwing, held twice mon…
215 days ago
Golden Gate Park, San Francisco, United States
251 days ago
"If you dare to be different… If you are without prejudice… If you love living on the edge… If exploring your wildest fantasies makes you tick …" WASTELAND  Europe’s biggest fetish fantasy event.In th…
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North Sea Venue, Amsterdam, Netherlands
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There's a Big Benefit to BDSM That Nobody's Talking About. Research indicates that BDSM practice, typically thought to be all about pain, dominance and physical stress, has health advantages beyond sexual satisfaction — including reducing stress.
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What is collaring? Collaring is the moment that shows that a sub has completed their training and their relationship with their Dom has been taken to a new level. If you can think of consideration and training collars as engagement rings, the ownership collar is similar to a wedding ring. Sometimes ceremonies are held by the Dom to celebrate this moment.
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"S and M is only the expression in the bedroom of an oppressive-submissive relation which can happen also in the kitchen or at the factory, can happen between people of any gender. There is obviously something titillating about these relationships, but it isn't the sexual components that makes them ugly, they're uglier elsewhere. Nothing sexual is depraved. Only cruelty is depraved, and that's another matter."

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